A few years ago, I asked students in my undergraduate psychology classes if – generally speaking – they thought it would be acceptable behavior for a girl to ask a boy out on a date. The women said yes … and so did the men … sort of. Further discussion revealed that, although they would find it flattering that a girl was interested in them, almost all the men said they’d feel at least a little uncomfortable with that … and they’d rather be the one to do the asking. Go figure.
Without a doubt, women can be a great leaders.
However, Romance is not the best place to demonstrate those abilities. Instead, this is the one place in the world where we get to relax & enjoy being a girl … for the most part.
Being in relationship with a member of the opposite sex can be fun … challenging … and hard work. And the benefits of loving a godly man by far outweigh the effort it takes to understand him.
The man was not created because the woman needed him; the woman was created because the man needed her. I CORINTHIANS 11:9